Generally for me, I have found that when I get upset at someone. Its because they are just like me. The people on here that I have got the most angry at, I have made amends to them, and now they are my friends. Just my experince. Basicly what I am saying is I end up eating crow, it doesnt taste good, so I try not to do it anymore. I know I consistently fail to live up to my expectations of myself. So how can I be upset at others?