Yeah, I think they like T5 HO best, or the lower wattage halides. 175's were fine, and a guy in Portland put a friend's RBTA under his HO T5's a little over a year ago. Now I think he has about 15 anemones, maybe more, it's hard to tell at this point since they are all right next to eachother in a sheet of tentacles. Definitely healthy in that setup!
If at all possible I think it's best to buy from someone who has an anemone split. This way you know you have the strain that splits and can take captivity, and it hasn't been shipped halfway around the world.
Hoping to find a few more colors of BTA when I get the dedicated anemone tank up. That one will have 250 watts of halide on it but will also be pretty deep. If the anemones don't like it I will move the coral to it and put the anemones back in the tank with the 175's. Either way works for me!
I do feed mine, if you underlight that you should do that. They get a chunk of frozen food weekly (thawed in saltwater since they eat it so fast and can't take salinity changes). They also snag a lot of the stuff the fish miss-mysis and baby brine shrimp.
Kate