A groud probe with no GFCI is a fire hazard. If the electrical short ends up pulling 19 amps arcing to ground through your tank, it won't trip the main breaker, it'll kill everything in the tank, and start a fire...
If you're having the garage wired, why not put GFI breakers in the panel?
We discussed the phenomenon of GFI breakers popping with high loads on startup in an electrical engineering class i took. It has something to do with the self inductance of coils of wire or capacitors causing a temporary imbalance between outgoing and incoming. It's typically a problem with large motors or ballasts. You can staggar equipment startup using your controller, and use a quality GFI rated for the loads you're doing (Like one in the panel rather than a plug in one). It's also possible you have something that's gone bad, so try measuring current to ground (not voltage) and see if something has gone bad.
Since you're talking garage, it is code to have GFI on all plugs in a garage, it's not really a choice here. If you're talking a tank in a livingroom, maybe you could argue it (though not likely since code says you have to have GFI within some distance of water), but a garage is specifically called out.
Disclaimer: I'm not an electician, but i have done years of permitted and inspected DIY electrical work and have a degree in computer engineering, a close cousin of an electrical engineering degree.