Get some polarized glasses at wally-world (damn, I hate that store). I think they keep them in the fishing section, and its only like $2-3.
Look at your glass from different angles. If you see funny waves, its tempered, if you want examples of each, your house windows wont be tempered, and your car side windows and shower glass door (if applicable) will be.
Tempered glass is just flat impossible to drill. I put a hole in it with hydrofloric acid just to show this guy claiming its impossible that its not quite impossible, but trust me, if its tempered, just over over the side.
Otherwise, a diamond hole saw and a steady stream of water works well. High speed drill required, and have somebody holding a hose on that sucker the whole time, and it drills fairly easy and cleanly.