In my experince anemone do very strange things. Swell up, strech out, shrink down, look like they are dying when they poop, and used to just worry me to death. I think lots are killed with kindness trying to dose this and that, change this and that to make them happier. IMHO Stability in temp, salinity, and lighting are very important along with frequent water changes to keep params from going out of spec. IMO the most important and most neglected thing in reefkeeping if frequent water changes, if you do lots of good sized changes with rodi water you will have sucess, neglect that and life can get miserable. I know there are tanks out there that have not had a partial in years. I can only share what has worked for me. If you are worried about adding that much water at once you could do like Matt sugested or get a dripper jug and drip you make up rodi water during the day and kalkwasser at night. that would put 2 gallons in a day over a long period of time making for a very stable system. JMHO Steve