Hey, I like my softy tank. They are not just for the new guy...or gal!
HB...check in your area for a reef club.
reef forums in pensilvania - Bing
Or check at your local fish store for a local club.
For instance on our site here, we have a classifieds that is open to members once they hit 30 days in their membership and supposedly a number of posts. In the classifieds poeple advertise anything they may have for sale. Coral, fish and equipment. If you can find a club forum in your area, you can meet people and trade corals with them. Not trying to send you somewhere else, we would like you to hang around on RF. Theres no reason you cant join more than one forum.
If the coral is fed more, sometimes they grow faster. There are products specifically for feeding your coral. There are products for feeding filter feeding coral like the soft coral and leathers, and other products for SPS and others for zoas and palys.
Coral Frenzy (a sponsor here) has some great coral food
Coral Frenzy | Home - The ULTIMATE Coral Food
Other online stores you can get other brands of coral food from, like kent marine and brightwell products.
Drs Foster & Smith
Fish Supplies: Fish Tank & Fish Care | DrsFosterSmith.com
Marine Depot
Aquarium Supplies, Fish Aquarium Tanks, Fish Supplies, Aquarium Lighting and more!
Marine & Reef
http://www.marineandreef.com/Aquarium_Vitamins_Boyd_Enterprises_Vita_Chem_s/145.htm
Bulkreef supply
http://www.bulkreefsupply.com/
Do you feed meaty foods to your fish. Some coral, like most all LPS (large polyp stony corals) will eat the same food. I feed my fish raw shrimp and scallops from the grocery store, mysis shrimp and frozen formula one. Chopped up in small pieces and soaked in vitamins. I also feed my LPS corals the same food. I also feed my coral frozen cyclopeze and coral frenzy and sps grow and a number of different liquid foods from kent marine and brightwell products.