I think I it was Elmo at about 2:30 in the morning on IRC that pointed me this way as I was not yet aware of the PSAS board or Reeffrontiers, as it has come to be known. I have met a wealth of open minded, generous and knowledgeable people through this board and I cannot imagine where I would be without it. Many thanks to all of you who have helped me along the way.
Don't worry about annoying us Nikki, just expect a little good-natured harassment from me in return, as always ; )
-Erik