Here are a couple builtin threads with stealth access panel designs. http://www.reefs.org/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=70766 Louey's 300G http://www.reefs.org/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=77868 Rich's 150G. I helped build the second one in Cali right before I moved back and have to say that I really dont care for stealth access panels. I found it better to just go for the gusto and make it ornate. With your crown moulding throughout the house I think that you and your wife would enjoy something like this one here http://www.oceansmotions.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=446 this isnt an access but we could come up with something nice. Im sure.
AS far as budget. Start with the acceptable number, cut the whole as Don said, get half the materials and then there really is no turning back regardless of cost overruns. Works like a charm! You simply forget to put the cost of PVC, mouldings, and some plywood in the budget. It just takes some time for the wounds to heal. Or maybe a wet bar. Marriage is all about compromise. Isnt it?
AS far as budget. Start with the acceptable number, cut the whole as Don said, get half the materials and then there really is no turning back regardless of cost overruns. Works like a charm! You simply forget to put the cost of PVC, mouldings, and some plywood in the budget. It just takes some time for the wounds to heal. Or maybe a wet bar. Marriage is all about compromise. Isnt it?