Becky,
Mike was asking about the diameter of the plumbing coming from the OM unit. I know it get confusing sometimes, but it helps if you speak Mojo....I finds that If I speak slowly and use hand signs he understands more easily.
JK Mike!
Mike, she's going with a Mod'ed 4 way, (It actually has 5 outlets)a nd will be runing on a version with 1 outlet runing at all times and able to push water through 3 while its switching...so thats going to adjust your flow rates through outlets abit.
Okay Becky,
You realize that with a 5500 gph pump, you're going to be turning over your tank volume somewhere in the neighborhood of 50+ times an hour, (accounting for some head loss due to plumbing) right? You're not going to be able to have a sandbed at all with this type of flow.
I would suggest three things...
1....Find a smaller pump.
2....Split your outlets, (more flow in more directions, in more areas, means happier corals)
3....relax. This hobby is sposed to be fun, (it gets tough to remember that some times...but you'll get it.)
The plumbing thing can be confusing, but if I can figure it out on my tank, you can figure it out on yours.
Nick